5 Easy Steps How To Find Out What You Want To Do In Life

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Many people are lost, and they don’t know what to do with their life. This is especially true in today’s world. Where opportunities are everywhere, and there are so many choices and alternatives to choose from. So do you know what you want to do in life? If you want to find out the answer, continue to read on…

Knowing what you want to do in life is important. If you don’t know what to do, you will be like a lost sheep, following the crowd to wherever the crowd leads you.

Do you want to live life on your own terms? Or do you want to follow what others did and do the same?

I believe you know the answer, which is why you are here reading this article in the first place.

Well, discovering your calling and figure out your life’s purpose can be hard at times. This is especially true when you are facing difficult times and hardships right now.

Anyone can be positive, happy and know what they want to do when life is easy. The real test comes when you faced with difficulties and feeling the world is coming down to you.

You doubt yourself, and you feel hopeless, and you are not sure if the path you have chosen is the right one for you.

Trust me; I have been there, and I know how it feels.

However, worry not because I’m going to share with you some of the most effective methods to self-discovery.

By using these 5 methods below, you can figure out what you truly want to do with your life. These methods may not be the best way to uncover your future, but they can at least give you some ideas about what you want in life.

Of course, if you follow through and do exactly as suggested, I’m sure you will be clear with your destiny and get a clear picture of what you want to do in the future.

Are you ready? Here are the 5 methods how you can discover yourself and find out what you want to do in life:

1. Envision Your Future

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This is one of the easiest ways to find out what you want in life. All you need to do is to envision your future.

Most people overestimate what they can accomplish within a year, and they underestimate what they can achieve within 5 years.

Usually, people want to see results and have big changes almost instantly. Thus, they will envision achieving great success within a year. And when they don’t get the results they want, they feel dejected and lost confidence. Eventually, they quit and give up on their dreams.

Don’t let this happen to you. Adopt the “blue sky thinking” where everything is possible.

Stop thinking about “What if,” instead, think that everything is possible and project yourself into the future.

Now, the best is to envision yourself 3 or 5 years into the future. If you choose a short time frame such as a year, it will be too short, and you will overestimate your ability. On the other hand, if you choose to envision 10 years into the future, it is too long to see the results and things will become blurry.

Therefore, the best is to envision yourself into the future for the next 3 or 5 years.

I personally prefer the 3-year time frame because it is not too short or too long, just sweet.

You can do the same. So what do you see yourself doing in the next 3 years? What work would you be in? Where would you be? Are you still working at the same company? Are you running your own business? Where would you stay? What car will you be driving?

Here are some suggestions to remember when you do this:

  • Imagine yourself 3 years into the future
  • Choose a quiet place to do this. Make sure there are no distractions
  • You can close your eyes and visualize if you want
  • Imagine the life you want, not what others want you to be
  • Think as if there are no limits
  • Don’t just envision about your financial success; other areas are important too. (Your relationships, career, adventures, personal development, skills, spirituality, etc.)
  • Take as much time as you want
  • You can do this every day if you want to

Sometimes it may be difficult to envision what you want in life. If you find it difficult to think about your future, proceed to the next strategy.

Envisioning your future is one of the most powerful skills anyone can possess. Albert Einstein, one of the most influential scientists, used to ‘daydream’ regularly to create breakthroughs in his discovery.

Professional athletes use visualization to mentally train their skills and studies have shown that visualization is as powerful as physical training.

Thus, try to make good use of your mind. It is the most powerful thing God has put in you. Our mind is what separates us from animals. We can think, and we have the ability to envision what we want and make it come true.

2. Ask Self-Discovery Questions

When it comes to figuring out what you want to do with your life, one of the most effective ways is by asking self-discovery questions.

When you ask questions, your mind will search for the answers. Successful people ask better questions. Thus, they get better answers.

So here are some questions you can try to answer:

  • Who I admire the most? Who do I want to be?
  • Am I happy with my work right now?
  • What makes me so focus and time fly without notice?
  • If money is not an issue, what would I do with the rest of my life?
  • What are my strengths and how can I share them with the world?
  • If everything is perfect, how would my ideal day and life look like?
  • What makes me happy?

The best way to go through this exercise is to write down the answers. So what you can do is to take out a piece of paper and write your answers.

Write Without Thinking

You have to apply the “3-minute rule” when you write the answers. Set a timer and limit yourself to write the answer within 3 minutes. Why?

The reason is simple; you want to jot down the first thought that comes to your mind. Usually, the first few thoughts that you have in your mind are the most real to you. They are your inner voice and what you truly want.

If you spend an hour doing this, you will find that eventually, your mind will start reasoning with you.

For example, you may have the thought “I admire Elon Musk, and I want to be the next Elon.” However, if you spend too much time here, your mind will try to reason with you. “No, I can’t because I’m not as good as him,” or “I don’t have the potential,” etc.

Therefore, limit your time when you answer these questions.

3. Tap Into Your Intuition

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The next thing you can do to find out what you want to do is to tap into your intuition.

Do you know that Steve Jobs was someone who trusted his intuition and followed his hearts? When he was young, he even went to India to discover his calling.

In his commencement speech at Stanford University, he said:

“Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Hence, stop listening to what others tell you what to do. Instead, trust your inner voice and listen to your intuition. You have to follow your heart and do what you think is right.

So here are a few tips how you can tap into your intuition:

1) Stay Quiet

You can’t listen to what your heart tells you when there are a lot of distractions and noise. Thus, get somewhere quiet and without distraction. Switch off your phone if you need to.

Lock yourself in your room, or simply takes a walk in the woods alone. Or else just sit under the tree and do nothing. This is exactly how Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton discovered their “Eureka” moment.

You can do the same by staying in solitude. You have to spend time to be alone sometimes. When you are alone and in the complete peaceful state, your intuition is the strongest.

2) Question Everything

If you read the book, “The Code of Extraordinary Mind” by Vishen Lakhiani, you will see how he explained our culture and society had shaped our life.

Who says that we must marry the woman from the same ethnicity or race or religion? Who says that we need to work hard to be successful? Who says that we need to score A’s in school to get a better job? Who says that we need to be in business if we want to be rich?

These are mere “opinions” or the “rules” our society has trained us to believe.

If you want to follow your heart and listen to your intuition, you have to question everything.

For example, what if I tell you that you don’t have to work hard to be successful? And what if I tell you that you don’t have to be in business to get rich?

So questions everything and listen to your inner voice.

3) Listen to Your Body

Our body can give a powerful signal of what we need. When we are tired, we will feel it from our body. When we are sleepy, our body will tell us. When you are sad, you know it because your body makes you feel so.

Thus, our body works as a signal telling us something. When you connect with your inner self, your body will tell you too. You will feel the chills, the inner sense of peace, sudden tears or feel touched.

So pay attention to your body. Sometimes, you want to be more emotional to feel what is happening. When you are happy, feel it. When you are sad, cry if you need to.

The more you listen and pay attention to your body and your feelings, the more intuitive you will be.

4. Take One Small Step

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This is a great way to discover what you want to do in life. I love the example given by Harv Eker, the author who wrote “The Secrets of The Millionaire Mind.”

(This is the book I strongly suggest everyone who wants to take charge of their financial life to read. It is a book that I’ve reread many times a year.)

In his book, he said he wanted to do a business selling pies. However, he has no idea where to start and how to do it.

Thus, he applied for a job as a cleaner in a restaurant selling pies. He got to work as early as possible, discuss and help the manager, and learn as much as he can when he was there.

After a few weeks, Harv has learned a lot about the business. And he quit the job, but he never started his business selling pies. Why? The reason was that he found he did not like the business and he cannot stand the smell.

The takeaway from this story is that you don’t have to go all out and start a business selling pies when you have no idea if you will like the business.

You don’t have to go all in when you have no idea what to do. You can always start small and test the water.

It is the same when it comes to figuring out what you want to do in life. If you think you want to start a business, but you are not sure about it, don’t jump straight into it. Just take one small step to find out more.

When you are doubtful about an investment opportunity, would you go all in and put all your hard-earned money into it? No, just take one smaller step to finding out more, do more research and move just one little step forward.

If you think your calling is to be an auditor or whatever, try to take up a part-time job or interview someone who has been doing it and learn more from there.

If you think your future is about becoming a real estate investor, try to find out more about real estate investment before you commit to it.

Just take one small step. It can save you, and it can give you a lot more information than just sitting there thinking about it.

5. Apply The “Shotgun” Method

What should you do when you are lost and don’t know what to do in life? Simple, just apply the shotgun method and try out everything.

Some people are lucky because they know what they want to do early in life. They know their calling and the focus on it.

On the other hand, most people find it hard to figure out what they want to do in life. If you are in this group, you need to expand and try out everything.

Success will not come to you in one shot. You might need to take a few shots before you can finally discover your target.

At first, you are using a shotgun, shooting at anything that comes to you. However, you will get better at aiming and knowing your target. Eventually, you will upgrade yourself to using a sniper.

And when you use a sniper, all you need to do is to zoom in and focus on a single target. Make the shot and hit your target.

It is the same in life. You may not know what you want to do at first. You may feel lost, and you may not know what you want.

Just do whatever that comes to you. Spread your effort to discover your target.

Vishen Lakhiani used to be a software salesman before he founded MindValley. Warren Buffett, the greatest investor, was once a newspaper delivery boy. Harrison Ford took whatever small movie role that came to him before he got famous.

Sometimes, you have to try out different things to know what you truly want in life.

Here’s what Abraham Lincoln has gone through:

1831 – Lost his job
1832 – Defeated in run for Illinois State Legislature
1833 – Failed in business
1834 – Elected to Illinois State Legislature (success)
1835 – Sweetheart died
1836 – Had nervous breakdown
1838 – Defeated in run for Illinois House Speaker
1843 – Defeated in run for nomination for U.S. Congress
1846 – Elected to Congress (success)
1848 – Lost re-nomination
1849 – Rejected for land officer position
1854 – Defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1856 – Defeated in run for nomination for Vice President
1858 – Again defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1860 – Elected President (success)

You may not know how the future will unveil. So just do your best and try out everything.

It is like throwing enough mud on the wall, some of it will stick.

Conclusion

These are the 5 ways how you can find out what you want to do with your life. After going through these methods, you may have a clearer picture of what to do and what you want in life.

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